An Act of Mercy

An act of Mercy

There was a bird catcher.Selling birds for his trade. Once, he saw a small bird trying to push it's way under the net. The bird was too small and not the type that sold on market.
He thought of shooing it away. Then he saw a kite sitting on a nearby tree .
Now he understood the plight of the young bird and the bird catcher drove away the kite  and set the bird free

In other world when yamraj got the  bird catches account of deeds checked  It was revealed that he was responsible for the death of countless birds. But he was responsible for saving the life of small bird. That earned him the pardon.

#One great deed can change the course of the life of a person

When life points a finger at you

Life has been with many new challenges and also with many new hard realities challenges which will make any one just a shiver and also makes the mind go blank. And many have faced it with a successful thoughts and hard work.

When some thing is forced upon us we will be more careful in choosing the right path.

Time makes you to accept certain challenges. Tough it may take some time.
Only trust and belief in your self you could achieve some thing great.

After 1 month

Well may be i am bit slow in learning or taking points.But may be due to lack of my networking that problem might have arised.That guy said will teach me but left me all alone.Think I only need to study stuff on my own.
Also need to take help from my ferns.But not many are in this field work stuff.Need to take help from working guys itself only.

Uff its a lot of pressure work on me.Need to maintain job so they will not remove me off.Since i need work exposure i need to pick up fast.So i could put experiance of bigger margin so could reach my goals for what i was born...:)
Well have created few communities and pages but i am only not regular in them...
May be for few months i need to stop using Facebook, orkut of for chatting.Since i am not going outside any where from Bangalore. So may be they might be thinking I am not fit for this job.But still Ineed to prove that they are wrong.
But how can Iimprove my working performance is the big question in front of me.May be i need to ask those who are working or with outside frens in different web site...
May be that suits me since i might get few tips or some guys  might have already written...
well have  browsed some stuff will read them later.

1. Visualization
Some people are more "visual learners" than others, but most everybody can benefit from the utilization of applied visualization in their lives. It is important to understand, though, that visualization is NOT the same as daydreaming. Think of visualization as power daydreaming. The results you get from the two activities are drastically different, though their process may be similar. The four keys to visualization are:


1. Use all your senses- the more senses you bring in to your visualization experiences, the more "real" it becomes for your brain. Remember-the brain seeks to make the "outside" or external reality congruent with the "inside" reality. Make that inside reality one that is vivid.
2. Be clear- make certain your outcomes are clearly set in your visualization. Do you succeed? By how much? How well do you perform?
3. Be positive (in your outcomes)-this might seem like a no-brainer, but it is important to make certain that your visualization is always positive with regards to tone and outcome.
4. Do it often!-as it has been said, repetition is the mother of skill. The more you do something the right way, the better you become at it.


2. Goal Setting
Most people subscribe to a well-known method for setting goals: Choose a goal, and make a daily to-do list towards attainment of that goal. Don’t do this. Most people fail in their goal setting for that very reason. Why? Life gets in the way! Daily tasks, crises, emergencies, etc. steal our time and leave nothing for achievement of our ambitions. Some ways to improve your goal setting abilities include:


1. Make certain your goals are in line with your dreams
2. Make sure that your goals inspire you (the "get-out-of-bed-early" test)
3. Invoke specific strategy (what you want to do) and planning (how you will do it)
4. Get your priorities straight, and get them on your schedule. Get them done first, before anything else.
5. Do these things on a weekly, not daily, basis.


3. Focus and Concentration
What is the difference between focus and concentration? I define focus in broad, behavioral terms. Focus is the center of our life interests and activities). Concentration is more narrow, and deals with cognition. It is the directed attention of mental activities toward a single point of reference.
So how can this help you? Understand that success requires a broad focus on a goal (outcome) with subsequent narrow attention to it’s attainment as time progresses. Geology, for example, teaches us great lessons about focus and concentration. Geology is merely the study of pressure and time. Given enough time and specific factors (focus), various geological formations are formed. Learn what geologists know: To achieve your goals, you will need to have a goal, and stay flexible in your approaches toward that end. Utilize concentration when specific instances occur in your life that will lead you closer to your goal.


4. Mental Toughness
Mental toughness is not what you think it is. Mental toughness is simple to define and difficult to execute (or everybody would be tough). Here are the keys:


1. Resiliency (the ability to bounce back)
2. Optimism (the ability to see the good in situations and events)
3. Proactive (the ability to act upon your environment)
Resiliency is important because everybody fails. The higher up you go in life, the more chances you will have had to fail. What is important, however, is how you respond to life’s inevitable obstacles and potholes. Optimism is simply a better choice than pessimism, as it leads to hope rather than despair. There is always a positive lean on a situation if you are willing to look hard and long enough. Finally, being proactive puts you in the driver’s seat to achieving your goals, as you are not at the mercy of your environment. Act or be acted upon.


5. Perspective
Perspective is the key to mental health. It allows for proper life balance, and allows for simultaneous realism and optimism. To get a better sense of perspective, realize that there are only three things in life that you can truly control: Your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Focus your energy on those three things. Monitor what you allow yourself to think about and focus on. Doing so will allow you to gain true perspective, which is always grounded in reality, but hints of better things to come.

Well this is another one might help me in improving my working performance...

9 Ways To Improve Performance At Work Place

1. Begin your day in office with work that makes you involved and interesting. This helps you to work effectively rather than work for more hours.

2. Take a break when you feel you are over occupied in work. Relax yourself by spending time with your mates.

3. Don’t get tensed and worried for your weaknesses. Focus on your strong areas which give you more confidence to overcome the weaknesses.

4. Try to concentrate only on work while you are in office. Restrain yourself from other thoughts while at work.

5. Compete with yourself. Rate your performance every day before you leave from office.

6. Prioritize and schedule your daily work and try to be effective in organizing yourself.

7. Be balanced and confident in the work you do. Over confidence makes you take a wrong step while lack of confidence prevents you from taking a step.

8. Don’t hesitate to make mistakes. Learn from them and try not to repeat them.

9. Prefer to be an open book rather than being a closed one.Constant learning makes a drastic difference in your life.

Well some of the facts which I had copied in above was not able to read since was a bit busy.Still my mind flows like a child don't know what to take either testing side or on networking side

 "As a child in front of chocolates confused which one to take and taste first..." 

Article for success through luck

Always thought other people have all the luck? Well, this is because they understand the difference between luck and planning and know how to place themselves in the path of good fortune. And now, you too can bend the path of luck towards you.

Max Gunther has outlined13 techniques for discovering and taking advantage of life's good breaks in his book 'How to Get Lucky', which has recently been republished after its debut in 1986.



Here are his 13 tips to turn your luck around:

1. Never confuse luck with planning:
When a desired outcome is brought about by luck, you must acknowledge that fact. If you confuse luck with planning, you will all but guarantee that your luck, in the long run, will be bad.

2. Find the fast flow:
Go where events flow fastest, surround yourself with a churning mass of people and things will happen. It doesn't matter if you are a quiet person; all you need to do is meet a lot of people and let them know who you are. Then they will direct opportunities your way.

3. Take calculated risks:
There are two ways to be an almost sure loser in life. One is to take risks that are out of proportion to the rewards being sought. The other is to take no risks at all. Lucky people, characteristically, avoid both extremes.

4. Know when to cut and run:
Always assume that a run of luck is going to be short, never try to ride a run to its peak. You will virtually always be right as the law of averages is heavily on your side.

5. Know how to select luck:
Is there some likelihood that the problems with your investment - whether it be time, money or love - will go away? Do you have some realistic hope of fixing them? If so, you should stay aboard. If not, you should get out and look for better luck elsewhere.

6. Take the zig zag path:
Despite what many people think the path to success is rarely a straight line. Lucky men and women, on the whole, are not straight-line strugglers. They not only allow themselves to be distracted, they invite distraction.

A plan should be used as a guide only and if something better comes along the plan should be discarded immediately without regret.

7. Supernatural belief can help:
Not because it makes you more lucky but because it helps you make impossible choices. Sometimes there is no rational choice to make, yet the worst reaction is to do nothing.

A supernatural belief can enable people to get into a potentially winning position simply by helping them make choices.

8. Be a bit pessimistic:
Lucky people, as a breed, tend to be pessimistic. Optimism means expecting the best, but good luck involves knowing how you will handle the worst.

9. Learn to keep your mouth shut:
Talk can tie you up and lock you in positions that seem right today but may be wrong tomorrow. Avoid unnecessary talk about your problems, plans and feelings. When there is no good reason to say something, say nothing.

10. Recognize a non-lesson:
There are experiences in life that seem to be lessons but aren't. Recognize when something was just bad luck and move on.

11. Accept the universe is unfair:
All of us, the good, the bad and the in-between, are all equally likely to realize our fondest dreams or contract cancer.

12. Be willing to be busy:
The more activities you have going the greater the likelihood that something good will happen.

13. Find a destiny partner:
This is someone who is someone who changes your luck over a long term. This person is not necessarily a romantic partner and is usually just found by blind luck but it can help if you are actively looking.

How to remember what you read

In our information-saturated century most of us need help to memorize things efficiently. But it’s hard to remember what we have learned. What can we do? Ability to appreciate and organize your study time may help to improve memory skills. Here are some tips.
Self-discipline is necessary to study effectively. Books, writing materials and paper should be organized. Try to study in a pleasant atmosphere, without any interference, and make sure you have enough light. Turn off the radio and television.
Plan your study time. Some people find it more effective to study every day for several minutes, rather than to cope with all the materials within one night before exam. It’s useful to divide your study time, taking short breaks. Instead of studying without interruption for two or three hours,it’s better to divide time in several periods from 25 to 40 minutes each one. Research show that this method increases the effectiveness of memorization.
Decide on how much you are going to study in a fixed time period. It helps to focus on reading material.
Before you start reading a book, devote a few minutes to a prior review. Read the title. Look through the table of contents. Then read the introduction. Perhaps there you will find the author’s purpose for writing and his point of view.
Before you start reading a chapter, take a look at its contents: subheadings, images, graphs, and conclusions. Pay more attention on the initial and final paragraphs. Glance through the first sentences of each paragraph. They usually contain the main idea. Try to summarize them all. Ask yourself what did the author want to prove? What can you learn from reading his book?
Concentration plays an important role. You have to immerse yourself in study. The point is to spend study time as effectively as possible. Imagine what you read, trying to use sensory perception when it’s possible.
Having understood the main idea of what you read, you’re ready to memorize it. Taking notes can also accelerate understanding and memorization of the material. You don’t need to write complete sentences, but just keywords and short phrases to help to remember the main ideas.
Understanding of the material doesn’t mean that in future you will certainly remember what you read. In fact 80 % of information gets forgotten within 24 hours. It’s a pity, but sometimes it can be recovered by making a brief overview. Using these tips, you can learn to use your study time in the most efficient way and to memorize things you read.
Remember that your brain is capable of more than you use it for. Your ability to memorize information can be developed.

How to read faster

I love reading books of different genres, from fantasy to science fiction, from psychology to computer books. So I wonder how to have time to read all the books of interest in a relatively short time? Here is a summary of some speed reading techniques. If you follow the recommendations listed below, you can increase the reading speed at least twice. For example, you will be able to read the book “The Da Vinci Code” in 8 hours!
Spend a few minutes for reviewing this book. You need to know what this book is about and what genre it is of. Look through the contents, the summary, glance through the book to find pictures.
Decide on what part of the book you will read. It is especially important for non-fiction books. A few of books contain material you require from the first to the last page. Find out, for example, which chapters will give you 80% of the required information. Also miss the introduction, the subject index and other service areas.
Sit up straight in a relaxing atmosphere. It’s easier to digest information in a quiet, well-lighted place. Avoid TV, radio, and any noise. You shouldn’t distract yourself from reading in order to be able to turn pages fast.
There are various methods of speed reading. Some recommend to “jump” through the text, others – to read from the top of the page to the bottom, etc. One of the most promising methods is an eye movement from left to right along a straight line at a speed of one line per second. Even if you don’t manage to make sense of some words, your brain will restore the sense of the whole phrase/sentence. The point is to practice and to persevere.
The most common problem of all the readers is the habit of pronouncing words while reading. It greatly reduces the reading speed. To avoid this, imagine that you are holding your breath and can’t speak.
Focus on what you are reading. How many times does your mind wander in the process of reading? I think a few times for sure. Try to focus on what you are reading, otherwise after a while you won’t be able to remember what the book was about. And it is a waste of time.
You can use these tips for all types of the printed word – websites, articles, books, magazines, reports, etc. There is only one exception. If you want to read a great work of art, there is no need to rush. Read it slowly, thoughtfully. Knowing that you can read it 2-3 times faster will make you more confident and optimistic.

 Exercises to improve your concentration

The main reason that we can’t memorize things is a lack of concentration. But this is fixable: the following simple exercises allow an adult or a child to improve concentration skills just in a few weeks!
1. When watching TV, put a watch in front of you. Try to keep your attention on the secondarrow for two minutes. Don’t let yourself pull attention to the TV!
2. Focus one half of your attention on motion of the second arrow, and the second one – on your hands. It’s like dividing your attention into two equal parts.
3. Follow the second arrow and at the same time mentally list the numbers at intervals of three: 1, 4, 7, 10, 13 … to 60 and back.
If you lose concentration or think about anything else, start over again. Try to hold out for at least two minutes.
4. Concentrate one-third of your attention on motion of the second arrow. Another one-third devote to a mental recitation of a rhyme or a song. The remaining one-third use for concentration on the numbers